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Vicki:  Dear [[Father]], we gather today in [[recognition]] of the [[love]], [[guidance]] and [[generosity]] you give to us.  And we ask once again, that you [[surround]] us and [[encircuit]] us with [[truth]] and [[light]], as we seek the [[wisdom]] and [[foresight]] of our [[Magisterial Son]], [[Monjoronson]].  May this session provide [[comfort]] and [[insight]] to our fellow [[brothers and sisters]].  We extend our [[gratitude]] to [[Christ]] [[Michael]], [[Nebadonia]] and all [[unseen]] [[friends]] who [[assist]] us in this [[journey]].  [[Amen]].

Vicki:  Dear [[Father]], we gather today in [[recognition]] of the [[love]], [[guidance]] and [[generosity]] you give to us.  And we ask once again, that you [[surround]] us and [[encircuit]] us with [[truth]] and [[light]], as we seek the [[wisdom]] and [[foresight]] of our [[Magisterial Son]], [[Monjoronson]].  May this session provide [[comfort]] and [[insight]] to our fellow [[brothers and sisters]].  We extend our [[gratitude]] to [[Christ]] [[Michael]], [[Nebadonia]] and all [[unseen]] [[friends]] who [[assist]] us in this [[journey]].  [[Amen]].

   

   

[Note to readers:  Our moderator, Vicki, [[experienced]] the [[death]] of her [[husband]], Michael, two days after Special Session #11 took place.  We thank her for her [[courage]] to continue these sessions during her [[time]] of [[sorrow]].]

[Note to readers:  Our moderator, Vicki, [[experienced]] the [[death]] of her [[husband]], Michael, two days after Special Session #11 took place.  We thank her for her [[courage]] to continue these sessions during her [[time]] of [[sorrow]].

 

===Dialogue===

===Dialogue===

===='''''[[Death]]'''''====

===='''''[[Death]]'''''====

*Transcending loss due to death

*[[Transcending]] loss due to [[death]]

   

   

Vicki:  I would like to start, Monjoronson, with a few [[words]] to you, and a [[statement]] about the [[intention]] of this session.

Vicki:  I would like to start, Monjoronson, with a few [[words]] to you, and a [[statement]] about the [[intention]] of this session.

   

   

Dear Monjoronson, you have gently reached down to me and extended the hand of [[guidance]] and [[preparation]] for [[events]] not only in the life of our [[audience]], but in my own [[personal]] life, and I am deeply [[grateful]] to you for this.  What was once an awkward and [[surreal]] [[experiment]] of sessions, now feels more like a [[conversation]] with a [[wise]] and dear [[friend]].  These are vulnerable, delicate times for me, but I am [[feeling]] that if I open my [[heart]] to you, that others may benefit in the [[future]], if they too [[experience]] such a [[profound]] [[loss]].  So, I am approaching you this session with an [[opportunity]] to [[assist]] us, with perhaps a deeper [[understanding]] of this period of [[time]], following [[death]] for both the deceased and the living, I would like to have the [[option]] of determining what becomes [[public]] [[record]] and what may be withheld as our [[private]] [[conversation]].  I did not [[research]], so I may be asking questions that have already been answered.  I ask for you to excuse me on this, this time.  If you [[agree]] to this, I would [[appreciate]] some [[guidance]] in this direction.

Dear Monjoronson, you have gently reached down to me and extended the hand of [[guidance]] and [[preparation]] for [[events]] not only in the life of our [[audience]], but in my own [[personal]] life, and I am deeply [[grateful]] to you for this.  What was once an awkward and [[surreal]] [[experiment]] of sessions, now feels more like a [[conversation]] with a [[wise]] and dear [[friend]].  These are vulnerable, delicate times for me, but I am [[feeling]] that if I open my [[heart]] to you, that others may benefit in the [[future]], if they too [[experience]] such a [[profound]] loss.  So, I am approaching you this session with an [[opportunity]] to [[assist]] us, with perhaps a deeper [[understanding]] of this period of [[time]], following [[death]] for both the deceased and the living, I would like to have the [[option]] of determining what becomes [[public]] [[record]] and what may be withheld as our [[private]] [[conversation]].  I did not [[research]], so I may be asking questions that have already been answered.  I ask for you to excuse me on this, this time.  If you [[agree]] to this, I would [[appreciate]] some [[guidance]] in this direction.

===Lesson===

===Lesson===

MONJORONSON:  Good morning, this is Monjoronson.  I definitely offer you the [[opportunity]] to [[discern]] and determine what is included in the published transcript and what is not.  It is your [[choice]] and it is a choice which we [[respect]] and abide by.  The [[information]] that others need to hear will be [[shared]], and that which is for you [alone] will be shared with you.  You have my [[sincere]] [[condolences]], my [[support]] and my [[love]] for you, as you go through this [[time]].  You see, dear one, that our [[message]] is for all of [[earth]] and its [[population]], and for each [[individual]], as you are now [[experiencing]], that this transposes from the general to the specific, from the global [[population]] to you [[individually]], and this truly is the [[message]] of Christ [[Michael]], and that this [[work]] that we do would be for nothing if one [[person]] were lost, or [[deceived]] by it.  So our utmost [[effort]] is to appeal to the [[individual]], to the [[truth]], and to the [[transcending]] [[truth]], that abides by each [[individual]] along their [[ascendant]] [[journey]].

MONJORONSON:  Good morning, this is Monjoronson.  I definitely offer you the [[opportunity]] to [[discern]] and determine what is included in the published transcript and what is not.  It is your [[choice]] and it is a choice which we [[respect]] and abide by.  The [[information]] that others need to hear will be [[shared]], and that which is for you [alone] will be shared with you.  You have my [[sincere]] [[condolences]], my [[support]] and my [[love]] for you, as you go through this [[time]].  You see, dear one, that our [[message]] is for all of [[earth]] and its [[population]], and for each [[individual]], as you are now [[experiencing]], that this transposes from the general to the specific, from the global [[population]] to you [[individually]], and this truly is the [[message]] of Christ [[Michael]], and that this [[work]] that we do would be for nothing if one [[person]] were lost, or [[deceived]] by it.  So our utmost [[effort]] is to appeal to the [[individual]], to the [[truth]], and to the [[transcending]] [[truth]], that abides by each [[individual]] along their [[ascendant]] [[journey]].

Vicki:  I do [[understand]] this, and I have felt throughout the sessions, with every [[topic]], I was taken deeper within for my own [[personal]] [[growth]].  To be [[honest]], it’s why for a time, I avoided a few [[topics]].  Actually, there is no sense in avoiding, because what will be, will be, I believe.  Am I right?

Vicki:  I do [[understand]] this, and I have felt throughout the sessions, with every [[topic]], I was taken deeper within for my own [[personal]] [[growth]].  To be [[honest]], it’s why for a time, I avoided a few [[topics]].  Actually, there is no sense in avoiding, because what will be, will be, I believe.  Am I right?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  You are most correct, that you are a [[unique]] [[individual]], but the [[facts]] of life that occur in your life, occur in the lives of others as well, and throughout the [[population]] of 7 billion people, there are so many commonalities, that there is no need for [[embarrassment]] or for chagrin about your [[foibles]], as they are [[suffered]] by most people, already.

MONJORONSON:  You are most correct, that you are a [[unique]] [[individual]], but the [[facts]] of life that occur in your life, occur in the lives of others as well, and throughout the [[population]] of 7 billion people, there are so many commonalities, that there is no need for embarrassment or for chagrin about your foibles, as they are [[suffered]] by most people, already.

===='''''[[Afterlife]]'''''====

===='''''[[Afterlife]]'''''====

*Message from beyond the veil

*[[Message]] from beyond the veil

   

   

Vicki:  Thank you for that.  I guess I feel like I’m putting you on the spot here, but of course you know I always [[respect]] what you wish to [[share]] and what you cannot.  My first question is:  Have you talked to my [[husband]], Monjoronson?

Vicki:  Thank you for that.  I guess I feel like I’m putting you on the spot here, but of course you know I always [[respect]] what you wish to [[share]] and what you cannot.  My first question is:  Have you talked to my [[husband]], Monjoronson?

Monjoronson, when I talked to Michael these last couple weeks, there would be [[moments]] when I would talk to my deceased [[husband]], can he hear me?

Monjoronson, when I talked to Michael these last couple weeks, there would be [[moments]] when I would talk to my deceased [[husband]], can he hear me?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, he can [http://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Sense#Audition hear] you, not as your [[voice]], but as your [[presence]].  You are attempting to [[speak]] through the [[morontia]]l [[consciousness]], and you have a “partial [[vocabulary]]” for that, and an [[inherent]] [[capacity]] as you have grown and [[ascended]] in your [[mortal]] lifetime, and your mortal [[consciousness]].

MONJORONSON:  Yes, he can [https://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Sense#Audition hear] you, not as your [[voice]], but as your [[presence]].  You are attempting to [[speak]] through the [[morontia]]l [[consciousness]], and you have a “partial vocabulary” for that, and an [[inherent]] [[capacity]] as you have grown and [[ascended]] in your [[mortal]] lifetime, and your mortal [[consciousness]].

===='''''[[Grief]]''''', '''''[[Emotion]]'''''====

===='''''[[Grief]]''''', '''''[[Emotion]]'''''====

*Grasping the reality of death

*Grasping the [[reality]] of [[death]]

   

   

Vicki:  Okay.  I realize that this [[journey]] of [[grief]] and loss for my [[husband]] has just begun, and indeed I have not yet fully grasped its [[reality]].  Can you help me with this?

Vicki:  Okay.  I realize that this [[journey]] of [[grief]] and loss for my [[husband]] has just begun, and indeed I have not yet fully grasped its [[reality]].  Can you help me with this?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, I would be glad to, as well as Christ [[Michael]] and [[Nebadonia]].  We are “here with you”—not just “for you”—but “with you.”  We are a [[presence]] among you, and that is how we [[wish]] to be, and I [[eventually]] will be among you in the [[flesh]].  So this [[practice]] of [[being]] “with you” in [[consciousness]] and in [[presence]] as an [[energetic]] [[form]] gives me [[opportunity]] to more fully become acquainted with you and all others, and for you to begin to [[understand]] and know me and [[feel]] my [[presence]].

MONJORONSON:  Yes, I would be glad to, as well as Christ [[Michael]] and [[Nebadonia]].  We are “here with you”—not just “for you”—but “with you.”  We are a [[presence]] among you, and that is how we wish to be, and I [[eventually]] will be among you in the [[flesh]].  So this [[practice]] of [[being]] “with you” in [[consciousness]] and in [[presence]] as an [[energetic]] [[form]] gives me [[opportunity]] to more fully become acquainted with you and all others, and for you to begin to [[understand]] and know me and [[feel]] my [[presence]].

   

   

Vicki:  I certainly feel that.  I feel that you have been with me through this whole [[experience]] of my loss.  I have seen your [[colors]], which often tell me of your presence and I am very [[grateful]].

Vicki:  I certainly feel that.  I feel that you have been with me through this whole [[experience]] of my loss.  I have seen your [[colors]], which often tell me of your presence and I am very [[grateful]].

MONJORONSON:  It has given me an [[opportunity]] to vicariously become more real in myself as a becoming [[mortal]].  My [[descension]] is becoming more complete, as I fully [[integrate]] and [[understand]] the [[emotions]] that you [[feel]] of loss and [[grief]], and of [[love]] and endearment, and [[commitment]].  These are [[learning]] [[environments]] and learning venues for me to [[appreciate]], and to what you might say, “[[practice]],” for my [[eventual]] [[appearance]].

MONJORONSON:  It has given me an [[opportunity]] to vicariously become more real in myself as a becoming [[mortal]].  My [[descension]] is becoming more complete, as I fully [[integrate]] and [[understand]] the [[emotions]] that you [[feel]] of loss and [[grief]], and of [[love]] and endearment, and [[commitment]].  These are [[learning]] [[environments]] and learning venues for me to [[appreciate]], and to what you might say, “[[practice]],” for my [[eventual]] [[appearance]].

*“What’s next” after a profound loss?

*“What’s next” after a [[profound]] loss?

   

   

Vicki:  Okay.  I feel [[honored]] to be part of this, Monjoronson.  I’m going to ask my ''darkest'' question, to get it over with:  I’ve had times in the past two weeks, when I wanted my life on [[earth]] to be taken too.  I cannot [[imagine]] living here without him, and yet, unlike my [[husband]], whose [[work]] was done, I sense that my work is not yet done here.  So I’m going to ask the question my dearly beloved [[friend]], Daniel asks, and that is “What’s next, Monjoronson?”

Vicki:  Okay.  I feel [[honored]] to be part of this, Monjoronson.  I’m going to ask my ''darkest'' question, to get it over with:  I’ve had times in the past two weeks, when I wanted my life on [[earth]] to be taken too.  I cannot [[imagine]] living here without him, and yet, unlike my [[husband]], whose [[work]] was done, I sense that my work is not yet done here.  So I’m going to ask the question my dearly beloved [[friend]], Daniel asks, and that is “What’s next, Monjoronson?”

MONJORONSON:  “What’s next” has already begun and engaged by yourself.  You have [[courageously]], [[thoughtfully]], “engaged our [[conversation]].”  Our conversation through these [[dialogs]], through these question and answer special sessions, and you have begun to move ahead.  We knew of this coming [[event]] of your [[husband]] for some time, and your positioning and [[intelligence]] and [[education]] offered itself tremendously to this [[conversation]], these [[dialogs]] that we have.  “What’s next” has [[actually]] begun before his passage.  You are already on the way to the rest of your life’s [[career]] and your [[service]].  You have been led through these [[conversations]] of dealing with [[hospice]] and [[near death experience]]s, and the passage of [[death]] and dying that it presents.  You were [[prepared]] for this and we have used this [[experience]] in your life for the [[education]] of all people who [[read]] these and hear these [[transcripts]].  

MONJORONSON:  “What’s next” has already begun and engaged by yourself.  You have [[courageously]], [[thoughtfully]], “engaged our [[conversation]].”  Our conversation through these [[dialogs]], through these question and answer special sessions, and you have begun to move ahead.  We knew of this coming [[event]] of your [[husband]] for some time, and your positioning and [[intelligence]] and [[education]] offered itself tremendously to this [[conversation]], these [[dialogs]] that we have.  “What’s next” has [[actually]] begun before his passage.  You are already on the way to the rest of your life’s [[career]] and your [[service]].  You have been led through these [[conversations]] of dealing with [[hospice]] and [[near death experience]]s, and the passage of [[death]] and dying that it presents.  You were [[prepared]] for this and we have used this [[experience]] in your life for the [[education]] of all people who [[read]] these and hear these [[transcripts]].  

   

   

You were not “used,” but you were a definite [Tool|implement]] in our toolbox of [[education]] for all of those who have and are and will [[experience]] the passage of a dear one.  It is [[essential]] that you and all others who will face this—as certainly all of you will—that [[death]] is simply a passage and that it is very [[personal]] when it is a loved one, as you have [[experienced]].  It will also become grossly [[personal]] when you have [[communities]] beside you who crossover [[simultaneously]], due to [[Catastrophism|disasters or cataclysms]].  These [[things]] you are unprepared for; we are [[assisting]] you with the “[[personal]],” because this is most [[intimate]] to you and everyone else.  

You were not “used,” but you were a definite [[Tool|implement]] in our toolbox of [[education]] for all of those who have and are and will [[experience]] the passage of a dear one.  It is [[essential]] that you and all others who will face this—as certainly all of you will—that [[death]] is simply a passage and that it is very [[personal]] when it is a loved one, as you have [[experienced]].  It will also become grossly [[personal]] when you have [[communities]] beside you who crossover [[simultaneously]], due to [[Catastrophism|disasters or cataclysms]].  These [[things]] you are unprepared for; we are [[assisting]] you with the “[[personal]],” because this is most [[intimate]] to you and everyone else.

 

===='''''[[Catastrophism]]'''''====

===='''''[[Catastrophism]]'''''====

*Preparation for the death of many

*[[Preparation]] for the [[death]] of many

   

   

The passage of many [[simultaneously]], as has occurred recently in the last few years in [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Orleans New Orleans] and the [http://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulf Coast of the United States Southern Coast of the United States], and in [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haiti Haiti], and in [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chile Chile], [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indonesia Indonesia], [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pakistan Pakistan], and the other places of tremendous geophysical [[tragedies]].  You have not a [[feeling]] for that yet here, in these [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States United States], though you must be [[prepared]] for this, as you must know that our [[work]] with you is to prepare you for that.  We have warned you generally of the [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cataclysm cataclysms] to come, and so we would not be good [[teachers]] if we did not [[prepare]] you for this [[personally]] and [[publicly]].  

The passage of many [[simultaneously]], as has occurred recently in the last few years in [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Orleans New Orleans] and the [https://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulf_Coast_of_the_United_States Southern Coast of the United States], and in [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haiti Haiti], and in [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chile Chile], [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indonesia Indonesia], [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pakistan Pakistan], and the other places of tremendous geophysical [[tragedies]].  You have not a [[feeling]] for that yet here, in these [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States United States], though you must be [[prepared]] for this, as you must know that our [[work]] with you is to prepare you for that.  We have warned you generally of the [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cataclysm cataclysms] to come, and so we would not be good [[teachers]] if we did not [[prepare]] you for this [[personally]] and [[publicly]].  

   

   

“What’s next,” is very clear:  I have spoken to you about this in the [[manuscript]] entitled, “[http://starbridgetrust.org/index.php?view=article&catid=8%3Atranscript-e-books&id=19%3Araphael-book&option=com_content&Itemid=15 Planetary Management and Global Sustainability],” (May 2007) which this one compiled and [[edited]] for us.  [It is available at http://www.starbridgetrust.org . Click on “[http://starbridgetrust.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=8&Itemid=15 Articles].”]  We are [[preparing]] you for this; we as [[Planetary]] Managers and [[Administrators]], would be negligent if we did not do so.  The end result, dear one, is that you are far better [[prepared]] for the [[future]], now, because of this, than without, and that the world’s [[population]] will be prepared as well.  Many will not [[prepare]] themselves but [[continue]] to live blithely as the summer roses and flowers bloom, never knowing the harshness of [[winter]] and [[death]].

“What’s next,” is very clear:  I have spoken to you about this in the [[manuscript]] entitled, “[https://starbridgetrust.org/index.php?view=article&catid=8%3Atranscript-e-books&id=19%3Araphael-book&option=com_content&Itemid=15 Planetary Management and Global Sustainability],” (May 2007) which this one compiled and [[edited]] for us.  [It is available at https://www.starbridgetrust.org . Click on “[https://starbridgetrust.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=8&Itemid=15 Articles].”]  We are [[preparing]] you for this; we as [[Planetary]] Managers and [[Administrators]], would be negligent if we did not do so.  The end result, dear one, is that you are far better [[prepared]] for the [[future]], now, because of this, than without, and that the world’s [[population]] will be prepared as well.  Many will not [[prepare]] themselves but [[continue]] to live blithely as the summer roses and flowers bloom, never knowing the harshness of [[winter]] and [[death]].

*Special relationship bonds in the afterlife

*Special [[relationship]] bonds in the [[afterlife]]

   

   

Vicki:  Thank you.  There are certain things, Monjoronson, that have been imprinted in my [[mind]], through my life, and a couple I’m [[struggling]] with—and I [[think]] they’re common sayings—so I’d like to [[share]] them and my [[reactions]] to them for the [[audience]].  One is:  “We entered this life alone, and in turn, we leave it alone.”  Now that I [[realize]] that my [[earthly]] life with my [[husband]], Michael, has ended, I [[struggle]] with the finality and the [[meaning]] of these [[words]].  I [[wonder]], what will become of this [[relationship]] in our [[ascendant career]]?  How will we [[relate]] to one another on the other side, so to speak?  And I feel tremendous loss, and though I know our lives will go on, will there still be this [[marriage]], this [[connection]], this same bond that we felt for one another on [[earth]], or will it be [[different]]?

Vicki:  Thank you.  There are certain things, Monjoronson, that have been imprinted in my [[mind]], through my life, and a couple I’m [[struggling]] with—and I [[think]] they’re common sayings—so I’d like to [[share]] them and my [[reactions]] to them for the [[audience]].  One is:  “We entered this life alone, and in turn, we leave it alone.”  Now that I [[realize]] that my [[earthly]] life with my [[husband]], Michael, has ended, I [[struggle]] with the finality and the [[meaning]] of these [[words]].  I [[wonder]], what will become of this [[relationship]] in our [[ascendant career]]?  How will we [[relate]] to one another on the other side, so to speak?  And I feel tremendous loss, and though I know our lives will go on, will there still be this [[marriage]], this [[connection]], this same bond that we felt for one another on [[earth]], or will it be [[different]]?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  It will be similar, and it will be [[different]], at the same time.  First of all, it will be a great [[reunion]] that you will have when you cross over and you are greeted by your loved ones.  After your “assembly” in the [[morontia]] receiving worlds, you will become part of an [[ascending]] class, of which your [[husband]] is a part now.  Yes, you will have a special [[relationship]], as there was a common [[shared]] [[history]] of [[memories]] and [[experiences]], from which you both will [[learn]] and can draw on for your [[lessons]] in your classes in the [[mansion world]] schools.  You will be classmates; you will be as though you were in a hallway in a high school, who are boyfriend/girlfriend; you will have that [[connection]] of oneness, of [[shared]] [[relationship]].  You will have commonalities that are peculiar and special to the [[two]] of you, but nonetheless which are also [[shared]] by billions of others in the schools at that [[time]], from their own lifetimes in their [[earthly]] [[experiences]].  You will surely [[recognize]] each other, and your [[commitment]] for this lifetime has been complete; your [[commitment]] will be [[shared]] in the [[future]] for your life of [[ascendant]] [[being]], and your [[commitment]] to your [[individual]] [[ascension]] [[plan]], that is [[shared]] with others and to your joint [[gratefulness]] to Christ [[Michael]] for having made your lives [[possible]].

MONJORONSON:  It will be similar, and it will be [[different]], at the same time.  First of all, it will be a great [[reunion]] that you will have when you cross over and you are greeted by your loved ones.  After your “assembly” in the [[morontia]] receiving worlds, you will become part of an [[ascending]] class, of which your [[husband]] is a part now.  Yes, you will have a special [[relationship]], as there was a common [[shared]] [[history]] of [[memories]] and [[experiences]], from which you both will [[learn]] and can draw on for your [[lessons]] in your classes in the [[mansion world]] schools.  You will be classmates; you will be as though you were in a hallway in a high school, who are boyfriend/girlfriend; you will have that [[connection]] of oneness, of [[shared]] [[relationship]].  You will have commonalities that are peculiar and special to the [[two]] of you, but nonetheless which are also [[shared]] by billions of others in the schools at that [[time]], from their own lifetimes in their [[earthly]] [[experiences]].  You will surely [[recognize]] each other, and your [[commitment]] for this lifetime has been complete; your [[commitment]] will be [[shared]] in the [[future]] for your life of [[ascendant]] [[being]], and your [[commitment]] to your [[individual]] [[ascension]] [[plan]], that is [[shared]] with others and to your joint [[gratefulness]] to Christ [[Michael]] for having made your lives [[possible]].

===='''''[[Stress]]'''''====

===='''''[[Stress]]'''''====

*Does God only give us as much as we can handle?

*Does [[God]] only give us as much as we can handle?

   

   

Vicki:  As a child, my mother used to say that, “Though at times we may [[feel]] overwhelmed with the [[challenges]] we face, that [[God]] only gives us as much as we can handle.”  Is this a true [[statement]]?

Vicki:  As a child, my mother used to say that, “Though at times we may [[feel]] overwhelmed with the [[challenges]] we face, that [[God]] only gives us as much as we can handle.”  Is this a true [[statement]]?

MONJORONSON:  Not entirely.  [[God]] has given you life and God has given you a fragment of itself as the [[Thought Adjuster]], that Mystery Monitor, that Father Fragment that resides with you in all [[eternity]].  There is an [[irony]] in this to some [[degree]], that you [[determine]] what you can overcome and what you cannot, what you [[choose]] to engage, and what you do not choose to engage.  Many with tremendous [[capacity]] and capabilities refuse to engage [[challenges]], which would bring them rapidly ahead in their [[spiritual]], [[emotional]] and [[social]] [[growth]].  What of them?  What of those?  And so, you dear one, by [[accepting]] many challenges, and not withering or withdrawing from them, you [[grow]] tremendously.  

MONJORONSON:  Not entirely.  [[God]] has given you life and God has given you a fragment of itself as the [[Thought Adjuster]], that Mystery Monitor, that Father Fragment that resides with you in all [[eternity]].  There is an [[irony]] in this to some [[degree]], that you [[determine]] what you can overcome and what you cannot, what you [[choose]] to engage, and what you do not choose to engage.  Many with tremendous [[capacity]] and capabilities refuse to engage [[challenges]], which would bring them rapidly ahead in their [[spiritual]], [[emotional]] and [[social]] [[growth]].  What of them?  What of those?  And so, you dear one, by [[accepting]] many challenges, and not withering or withdrawing from them, you [[grow]] tremendously.  

   

   

The hazard is that [[eager]] [[souls]] may be too immature to overcome the challenges that they see before them, and which they [[accept]] to [[engage]].  There are also [[lessons]] involved in that.  There are really no failures in life, only learned [[experiences]] of what works and what does not [[work]].  You generally—all people—are usually far too harsh on themselves for their “failures,” whereas these are simply signs, [[symbols]] and omens that say, “not this way, not at this [[time]].”  Surely [[God]] has given you—that is your [[Father]], Christ [[Michael]]—has given you tremendous [[opportunities]], through the [[creation]] of this world, and though there are tremendous [[difficulties]] which he did not [[plan]] for you, as in [[the Rebellion]] and withdrawal from [[commitment]] by your [[former]] [[Planetary Prince]], [[Caligastia]], and [http://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Paper_67#67:2._THE_OUTBREAK_OF_REBELLION his staff], you are [[supported]] through all these.  

The hazard is that [[eager]] [[souls]] may be too immature to overcome the challenges that they see before them, and which they [[accept]] to [[engage]].  There are also [[lessons]] involved in that.  There are really no failures in life, only learned [[experiences]] of what works and what does not [[work]].  You generally—all people—are usually far too harsh on themselves for their “failures,” whereas these are simply signs, [[symbols]] and omens that say, “not this way, not at this [[time]].”  Surely [[God]] has given you—that is your [[Father]], Christ [[Michael]]—has given you tremendous [[opportunities]], through the [[creation]] of this world, and though there are tremendous [[difficulties]] which he did not [[plan]] for you, as in [[the Rebellion]] and withdrawal from [[commitment]] by your [[former]] [[Planetary Prince]], [[Caligastia]], and [https://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Paper_66#66:2._THE_PRINCE.27S_STAFF his staff], you are [[supported]] through all these.  

   

   

You—and when I say “you,” I mean all [[humankind]]—have been fraught with [[challenges]], which were never [[planned]] for you [[individually]], or as a [[civilization]], that you must now come [[together]] within yourself as a [[person]], to draw your [[resources]] [[together]] to overcome these [[challenges]], and you [[collectively]], as a [[nation]] and as a [[civilization]], must also come draw your resources together to overcome the immense [[challenges]] which face your people on this world.  And, I am here to help you do that.

You—and when I say “you,” I mean all [[humankind]]—have been fraught with [[challenges]], which were never [[planned]] for you [[individually]], or as a [[civilization]], that you must now come [[together]] within yourself as a [[person]], to draw your [[resources]] [[together]] to overcome these [[challenges]], and you [[collectively]], as a [[nation]] and as a [[civilization]], must also come draw your resources together to overcome the immense [[challenges]] which face your people on this world.  And, I am here to help you do that.

===='''''[[Security]]'''''====

===='''''[[Security]]'''''====

*Are we given protection during these difficulties?

*Are we given protection during these [[difficulties]]?

   

   

Vicki:  A surprising answer, but now I [[understand]].  These last two weeks I feel something inside, holding me back from [[experiencing]] the [[magnitude]] of this loss.  There was [[momentum]] within me to be [[free]] of these [[financial]] roadblocks that we faced [[together]], and I’ve pushed myself to resolve what I can.  My question is:  Is this a result of some [[unconscious]] protective mode in my [[mind]], or am I indeed experiencing the protective [[influence]] of [[spirit]] [[beings]]?

Vicki:  A surprising answer, but now I [[understand]].  These last two weeks I feel something inside, holding me back from [[experiencing]] the [[magnitude]] of this loss.  There was [[momentum]] within me to be [[free]] of these [[financial]] roadblocks that we faced [[together]], and I’ve pushed myself to resolve what I can.  My question is:  Is this a result of some [[unconscious]] protective mode in my [[mind]], or am I indeed experiencing the protective [[influence]] of [[spirit]] [[beings]]?

Vicki:  Thank you for that, Monjoronson, and I have felt your [[presence]] along with the other [[spirit]] [[beings]] that have been with me and [[assisted]] me.  I know I’ve been [[prepared]] for a long time; I have surprisingly little [[fear]]—occasionally an overwhelming [[feeling]], but I can see my [[growth]] in that respect.

Vicki:  Thank you for that, Monjoronson, and I have felt your [[presence]] along with the other [[spirit]] [[beings]] that have been with me and [[assisted]] me.  I know I’ve been [[prepared]] for a long time; I have surprisingly little [[fear]]—occasionally an overwhelming [[feeling]], but I can see my [[growth]] in that respect.

===='''''[[Insight]]'''''====

===='''''[[Insight]]'''''====

*Gaining insight about the complexity and simplicity of living

*Gaining [[insight]] about the [[complexity]] and [[simplicity]] of living

   

   

MONJORONSON:  By overcoming these problems and these situations, you will be strengthened, and you will be wizened.  You will gain an [[insight]] into the life of [[complexity]] and [[simplicity]], and will be more able to [[consciously]] [[choose]] how you wish to live, and know what [[supports]] your life as a [[spiritual]] [[being]] who is growing.

MONJORONSON:  By overcoming these problems and these situations, you will be strengthened, and you will be wizened.  You will gain an [[insight]] into the life of [[complexity]] and [[simplicity]], and will be more able to [[consciously]] [[choose]] how you wish to live, and know what [[supports]] your life as a [[spiritual]] [[being]] who is growing.

MONJORONSON:  Oh, most heartily, yes.  Your [[society]] takes on a life of its own, as if it were a [[personification]] of some [[ego]], and this is simply not true.  [[Individuals]], such as you and your [[husband]], oftentimes buy into these societal [[obligations]], unwittingly, complicating their lives in ways that would not become [[apparent]] until the [[present]].

MONJORONSON:  Oh, most heartily, yes.  Your [[society]] takes on a life of its own, as if it were a [[personification]] of some [[ego]], and this is simply not true.  [[Individuals]], such as you and your [[husband]], oftentimes buy into these societal [[obligations]], unwittingly, complicating their lives in ways that would not become [[apparent]] until the [[present]].

   

   

*Assisting others to face their challenges

*[[Assisting]] others to face their [[challenges]]

   

   

Vicki:  I do want to say for the [[audience]], that I truly believe through this [[experience]], that my [[faith]] is carrying me.  And although I can’t [[envision]] it, I have a sense that there is a [[plan]] here, and that I [[think]] you’ve already mentioned, part of the plan is to [[develop]] my [[ability]] to [[empathize]] and [[understand]] and [[assist]] others as they face similar [[challenges]] in the [[future]].  My next question was, “Is this part of the [[plan]]?” which I believe you’ve answered.  I don’t know if you’d like to add to that or not.

Vicki:  I do want to say for the [[audience]], that I truly believe through this [[experience]], that my [[faith]] is carrying me.  And although I can’t [[envision]] it, I have a sense that there is a [[plan]] here, and that I [[think]] you’ve already mentioned, part of the plan is to [[develop]] my [[ability]] to [[empathize]] and [[understand]] and [[assist]] others as they face similar [[challenges]] in the [[future]].  My next question was, “Is this part of the [[plan]]?” which I believe you’ve answered.  I don’t know if you’d like to add to that or not.

Vicki:  I’m going to get into some questions that are less global, again.  Monjoronson, do our deceased loved ones experience sorrow over the abrupt ending of their [[material]] lives?

Vicki:  I’m going to get into some questions that are less global, again.  Monjoronson, do our deceased loved ones experience sorrow over the abrupt ending of their [[material]] lives?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  No, they do not.  What they [[feel]] is oftentimes is like they [[wake]] up to a [http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/non%20sequitur non-sequitur].  There is a very distinct disjuncture from their prior [[experiences]].  Their [[state]] of [[existence]] is so abruptly changed from the past that sorrow is not one of them.  Sorrow indicates a disappointment or loss of attachment, whereas when a [[person]] is deceased and becomes [[aware]]—and many do not become aware that they are deceased for some time—that when they become [[aware]] of their [[existence]], they know it is separate and apart from that which was, and that they take great [[joy]] and [[awe]] in their next few steps of this [[journey]].  It is one of [[wonderment]] and [[joy]].  There is a [[wonderment]] in the inexplicable, the [[unknown]], but delightful passage forward that they are underway.

MONJORONSON:  No, they do not.  What they [[feel]] is oftentimes is like they [[wake]] up to a [https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/non%20sequitur non-sequitur].  There is a very distinct disjuncture from their prior [[experiences]].  Their [[state]] of [[existence]] is so abruptly changed from the past that sorrow is not one of them.  Sorrow indicates a disappointment or loss of attachment, whereas when a [[person]] is deceased and becomes [[aware]]—and many do not become aware that they are deceased for some time—that when they become [[aware]] of their [[existence]], they know it is separate and apart from that which was, and that they take great [[joy]] and [[awe]] in their next few steps of this [[journey]].  It is one of [[wonderment]] and [[joy]].  There is a [[wonderment]] in the inexplicable, the [[unknown]], but delightful passage forward that they are underway.

   

   

Vicki:  When they see us in our sorrow, they do not cry or [[suffer]] with us, is that correct?

Vicki:  When they see us in our sorrow, they do not cry or [[suffer]] with us, is that correct?

Vicki:  That leads me to another question that I have, and that is that I believe Daniel received a bit of [[information]] for me on this, but I thought for the [[audience]], it might be important to revisit.  Apart from [[accidents]] in time, does one [[choose]] their [[time]] of [[death]]?

Vicki:  That leads me to another question that I have, and that is that I believe Daniel received a bit of [[information]] for me on this, but I thought for the [[audience]], it might be important to revisit.  Apart from [[accidents]] in time, does one [[choose]] their [[time]] of [[death]]?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, this is an [[agreed]] upon [[development]] between the [[soul]], [[personality]] of the [[individual]] and the [[Thought Adjuster]].  This is a [[three]]-way [[decision]] that is made.  There is the arrangement for the completion of the [[course]] of one’s life, the [[learning]] of [[lessons]] and that of being of [[service]].  Truly [[mature]] [[souls]] [[understand]] this before they come to this lifetime, and as they [[grow]] in their [[development]], they re-establish that [[agreement]] [and] choose to live with [[intention]] and they choose to die with intention.  [See section on “young and old souls” in [http://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Monjoronson_Special_Session_9-2010-03-29 Special Session #9, Mar. 29, 2010]]

MONJORONSON:  Yes, this is an [[agreed]] upon [[development]] between the [[soul]], [[personality]] of the [[individual]] and the [[Thought Adjuster]].  This is a [[three]]-way [[decision]] that is made.  There is the arrangement for the completion of the [[course]] of one’s life, the [[learning]] of [[lessons]] and that of being of [[service]].  Truly [[mature]] [[souls]] [[understand]] this before they come to this lifetime, and as they [[grow]] in their [[development]], they re-establish that [[agreement]] [and] choose to live with [[intention]] and they choose to die with intention.  [See section on “young and old souls” in [https://nordan.daynal.org/wiki/index.php?title=Monjoronson_Special_Session_9-2010-03-29 Special Session #9, Mar. 29, 2010]]

   

   

The truly [[Maturity|evolved]] [[individual]] makes the [[intention]] to live as long as they can [[learn]] lessons and be of [[service]] to others, and once that has occurred, they [[choose]] to exit this lifetime.  You have seen very often in [[friends]], [[families]] and acquaintances, those whose life seems to have come to completion and they cross over.  Their [[work]] is done; they have finished the [[course]] of their life, the race is done, and so they cross the finish line and move on.  

The truly [[Maturity|evolved]] [[individual]] makes the [[intention]] to live as long as they can [[learn]] lessons and be of [[service]] to others, and once that has occurred, they [[choose]] to exit this lifetime.  You have seen very often in [[friends]], [[families]] and acquaintances, those whose life seems to have come to completion and they cross over.  Their [[work]] is done; they have finished the [[course]] of their life, the race is done, and so they cross the finish line and move on.  

Vicki:  Oh, thank you for that insight!  

Vicki:  Oh, thank you for that insight!  

===='''''[[Connectivity]]'''''====

===='''''[[Connectivity]]'''''====

*Energetic bonds of shared consciousness between loved ones

*[[Energetic]] bonds of [[shared]] [[consciousness]] between loved ones

   

   

Vicki:  Monjoronson, I’m going to refer back to this question about our [[perception]] of how the deceased are [[feeling]], I feel needs some [[clarification]].  Some people feel the deceased are held back by the [[suffering]] of those that are living, and that if the living are suffering so badly and cannot move away from their [[grief]], that they stand in the way of the deceased from moving on.  Is there [[truth]] to that?

Vicki:  Monjoronson, I’m going to refer back to this question about our [[perception]] of how the deceased are [[feeling]], I feel needs some [[clarification]].  Some people feel the deceased are held back by the [[suffering]] of those that are living, and that if the living are suffering so badly and cannot move away from their [[grief]], that they stand in the way of the deceased from moving on.  Is there [[truth]] to that?

Vicki:  Many people feel or claim they’ve received [[Communication|contact]] with their loved ones, following their ''[[death]]''.  If this is indeed valid, in what ways may we receive this contact?

Vicki:  Many people feel or claim they’ve received [[Communication|contact]] with their loved ones, following their ''[[death]]''.  If this is indeed valid, in what ways may we receive this contact?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  I will affirm that it does occur, but I withhold full disclosure of why and when and how this can occur, as we do not [[wish]] you to [[confuse]] those who are recently crossed over.  There is too much neediness on the part of those who remain to give you full [[understanding]] of this [[process]].  Truly, we wish you to see the [[event]] of [[death]] as a time of clear crossing, without [[interference]], one in which there is the [[anticipation]] of [[eventual]] reunion in the [[afterlife]].

MONJORONSON:  I will affirm that it does occur, but I withhold full disclosure of why and when and how this can occur, as we do not wish you to [[confuse]] those who are recently crossed over.  There is too much neediness on the part of those who remain to give you full [[understanding]] of this [[process]].  Truly, we wish you to see the [[event]] of [[death]] as a time of clear crossing, without [[interference]], one in which there is the [[anticipation]] of [[eventual]] reunion in the [[afterlife]].

   

   

Vicki:  A similar question that people often refer to is, does the one who passed have the [[opportunity]] to [[Observation|watch]] the viewing and funeral services given in [[memory]] of them?

Vicki:  A similar question that people often refer to is, does the one who passed have the [[opportunity]] to [[Observation|watch]] the viewing and funeral services given in [[memory]] of them?

===='''''[[Spiritualism]]'''''====

===='''''[[Spiritualism]]'''''====

*Harmful beliefs of ‘spiritism’ are detrimental to spiritual growth

*Harmful [[beliefs]] of ‘spiritism’ are detrimental to [[spiritual]] [[growth]]

   

   

The great [[confusion]] that your world has about this realm of [[spiritual]] [[entities]] has caused great [[difficulty]] for many, and has led to inappropriate [[beliefs]] of the [[occult]], both positively and negatively.  Harmful [[beliefs]] of ‘spiritism’ are highly detrimental to an [[organized]], [[effective]] life of [[spiritual]] [[growth]].  Too much occupation and [[thought]] has been spent upon this realm, which is only a “bus stop” on the way to the [[morontia]]l realm, after [[mortal]] life.  Too many [[efforts]], too many [[movies]], too many stories and [[novels]] have been spent dealing with this [[mysterious]] realm, though I would be glad to explain this in more detail at a [[future]] time, for your greater [[clarity]].  We would be glad to go into great specifics, if you wish; now is not the time.

The great [[confusion]] that your world has about this realm of [[spiritual]] [[entities]] has caused great [[difficulty]] for many, and has led to inappropriate [[beliefs]] of the [[occult]], both positively and negatively.  Harmful [[beliefs]] of ‘spiritism’ are highly detrimental to an [[organized]], [[effective]] life of [[spiritual]] [[growth]].  Too much occupation and [[thought]] has been spent upon this realm, which is only a “bus stop” on the way to the [[morontia]]l realm, after [[mortal]] life.  Too many [[efforts]], too many [[movies]], too many stories and [[novels]] have been spent dealing with this [[mysterious]] realm, though I would be glad to explain this in more detail at a [[future]] time, for your greater [[clarity]].  We would be glad to go into great specifics, if you wish; now is not the time.

Vicki:  Are there any other tips, that you may wish to offer us that will help us, when we are grieving?

Vicki:  Are there any other tips, that you may wish to offer us that will help us, when we are grieving?

===='''''[[Memory]]''''', '''''[[Joy]]'''''====

===='''''[[Memory]]''''', '''''[[Joy]]'''''====

*Turning sorrows to remembrances of joy

*Turning [[sorrows]] to [[remembrances]] of [[joy]]

   

   

MONJORONSON:  There are the everyday [[sorrows]] that you will [[feel]]:  The time across the coffee table or breakfast table in the morning, to the turning out the lights at night [[together]].  There are those little [[remembrances]], which will [[cause]] much [[grief]] and [[difficulty]] for you, and it is best to engage all of these [[events]] from the [[joy]] that they gave you, and the [[joy]] that you [[remember]], rather than the loss that you [[suffer]].  This way you will fill your life with [[good]] [[remembrances]] and of [[joys]] and of [[shared]] [[experiences]], rather than the selfish grieving that many have after this time.

MONJORONSON:  There are the everyday [[sorrows]] that you will [[feel]]:  The time across the coffee table or breakfast table in the morning, to the turning out the lights at night [[together]].  There are those little [[remembrances]], which will [[cause]] much [[grief]] and [[difficulty]] for you, and it is best to engage all of these [[events]] from the [[joy]] that they gave you, and the [[joy]] that you [[remember]], rather than the loss that you [[suffer]].  This way you will fill your life with [[good]] [[remembrances]] and of [[joys]] and of [[shared]] [[experiences]], rather than the selfish grieving that many have after this time.

   

   

Vicki:  Thank you.  I can certainly [[relate]] to that one.  I’d like to talk a little bit about giving and receiving, Monjoronson, because roles will [[change]] at this time, and we [[mortals]] [[struggle]] with the shifting of the gears.  I guess I’m primarily referring to it being [[difficult]] to shift from being a giver to being a receiver, and vice versa.  I also struggle with this in my grief, feeling that I am a burden to others.  Could you comment on this?

Vicki:  Thank you.  I can certainly [[relate]] to that one.  I’d like to talk a little bit about giving and receiving, Monjoronson, because roles will [[change]] at this time, and we [[mortals]] [[struggle]] with the shifting of the gears.  I guess I’m primarily referring to it being [[difficult]] to shift from being a giver to being a receiver, and vice versa.  I also struggle with this in my grief, feeling that I am a burden to others.  Could you comment on this?

===='''''[[Receptivity]]''''', ''''[[Grace]]'''''====

===='''''[[Receptivity]]''''', '''''[[Grace]]'''''====

*Giving and receiving with grace

*Giving and [[receiving]] with [[grace]]

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, I will be most glad to.  Those are [[natural]] [[feelings]] of a well [[balanced]] [[personality]]; one who has a well balanced [[emotional]] [[sphere]].  There is a time for giving, and there is a time for receiving, and also know that in the receiving, you are [[assisting]] others in [[understanding]] the role of [[receiving]], for they too will surely go through this.  Receive with [[grace]] would be my [[advice]].  You have given with [[grace]], now receive with grace, and [[understand]] that you by receiving grace, you are a living [[model]] for those who will also grieve your passage when you leave; that you will have provided them with a model for [[receiving]] appropriately, and not extensively or for great duration, but as is [[necessary]] for you to go on your way to pick up the pieces and resume your life again—changed, but still resumed.

MONJORONSON:  Yes, I will be most glad to.  Those are [[natural]] [[feelings]] of a well [[balanced]] [[personality]]; one who has a well balanced [[emotional]] [[sphere]].  There is a time for giving, and there is a time for receiving, and also know that in the receiving, you are [[assisting]] others in [[understanding]] the role of [[receiving]], for they too will surely go through this.  Receive with [[grace]] would be my [[advice]].  You have given with [[grace]], now receive with grace, and [[understand]] that you by receiving grace, you are a living [[model]] for those who will also grieve your passage when you leave; that you will have provided them with a model for [[receiving]] appropriately, and not extensively or for great duration, but as is [[necessary]] for you to go on your way to pick up the pieces and resume your life again—changed, but still resumed.

===='''''[[Stress]]''''', '''''[[Fear]]'''''====

===='''''[[Stress]]''''', '''''[[Fear]]'''''====

Vicki:  It has been suggested to me that [[stress]] played a significant role in the [[death]] of my [[husband]].  What do you advise to others when they [[experience]] long-term, stressful situations in the [[future]]?

Vicki:  It has been suggested to me that [[stress]] played a significant role in the [[death]] of my [[husband]].  What do you advise to others when they [[experience]] long-term, stressful situations in the [[future]]?

Living with ongoing, enduring [[stress]] is truly detrimental to your [[physical]] [[body]], and does [[prepare]] the way for early passage.  Lives that are under [[stress]] deteriorate much more rapidly as there is a [[toxic]] [[energy]] in the [[individual]], which [[work]]s against the [[body]] [[mechanism]].  Truly the [[body]] can only live in the [[now]], and when the [[mind]] struggles with the [[past]] and the [[future]], then the [[body]], which lives in the now, [[suffers]].

Living with ongoing, enduring [[stress]] is truly detrimental to your [[physical]] [[body]], and does [[prepare]] the way for early passage.  Lives that are under [[stress]] deteriorate much more rapidly as there is a [[toxic]] [[energy]] in the [[individual]], which [[work]]s against the [[body]] [[mechanism]].  Truly the [[body]] can only live in the [[now]], and when the [[mind]] struggles with the [[past]] and the [[future]], then the [[body]], which lives in the now, [[suffers]].

   

   

Vicki:  Some in the [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maya_civilization Mayan culture] claim that during [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ancient ancient times], when past [[catastrophic]] [[events]] occurred, [[fear]] was a major killer.  Was this a valid [[assumption]]?

Vicki:  Some in the [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maya_civilization Mayan culture] claim that during [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ancient ancient times], when past [[catastrophic]] [[events]] occurred, [[fear]] was a major killer.  Was this a valid [[assumption]]?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Very much so.  [[Fear]] is a great stressor.

MONJORONSON:  Very much so.  [[Fear]] is a great stressor.

Vicki:  (Laughing)  That’s what I was [[wondering]]!  The [[negative]] [[emotions]] of [[anger]], resentment, vengeance, [[guilt]], and [[shame]] seem to [[surface]] more frequently in those who are [[grieving]] the loss of a loved one.  Could you speak to this?

Vicki:  (Laughing)  That’s what I was [[wondering]]!  The [[negative]] [[emotions]] of [[anger]], resentment, vengeance, [[guilt]], and [[shame]] seem to [[surface]] more frequently in those who are [[grieving]] the loss of a loved one.  Could you speak to this?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Most definitely.  And this situation was addressed by [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisabeth_K%C3%BCbler-Ross Elizabeth Kübler Ross] in her [[book]], “[http://books.google.com/books?id=ar2lqlxsHeQC&printsec=frontcover&dq=on+death+and+dying&hl=en&ei=qtEaTOOrFMK88gbd8tXFCQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CC8Q6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false Death and Dying].”  That these [[emotions]] [[surface]] because of the loss of a loved one, that inexplicitly this [[individual]] is no longer there, as though they had abdicated willfully and [[intentionally]] their lifetime, and from the one who is left.  There is a sense of [[betrayal]]; there is a sense of neglect and a loss of [[commitment ]] by the one who is left.  Various [[interpretations]] run through their [[mind]] about the [[cause]]s of that, and then there is the [[emotional]] [[reaction]] to those and that situation.  So these [[negative]] [[emotions]] are part of the [[emotional]] roller coaster that loved ones feel when they are left behind.  It is a [[natural]], [[emotional]] [[developmental]] [[process]]: it is one to be [[appreciated]]; it is one to be [[accepted]], knowing that tomorrow is another day and you will feel [[differently]], and [[eventually]] these [[thoughts]] of [[betrayal]] and of loss will resurface as [[feelings]] of long-term [[commitment]], [[love]], [[loyalty]] and [[appreciation]].

MONJORONSON:  Most definitely.  And this situation was addressed by [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisabeth_K%C3%BCbler-Ross Elizabeth Kübler Ross] in her [[book]], “[https://books.google.com/books?id=ar2lqlxsHeQC&printsec=frontcover&dq=on+death+and+dying&hl=en&ei=qtEaTOOrFMK88gbd8tXFCQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CC8Q6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false Death and Dying].”  That these [[emotions]] [[surface]] because of the loss of a loved one, that inexplicitly this [[individual]] is no longer there, as though they had abdicated willfully and [[intentionally]] their lifetime, and from the one who is left.  There is a sense of [[betrayal]]; there is a sense of neglect and a loss of [[commitment ]] by the one who is left.  Various [[interpretations]] run through their [[mind]] about the [[cause]]s of that, and then there is the [[emotional]] [[reaction]] to those and that situation.  So these [[negative]] [[emotions]] are part of the [[emotional]] roller coaster that loved ones feel when they are left behind.  It is a [[natural]], [[emotional]] [[developmental]] [[process]]: it is one to be [[appreciated]]; it is one to be [[accepted]], knowing that tomorrow is another day and you will feel [[differently]], and [[eventually]] these [[thoughts]] of [[betrayal]] and of loss will resurface as [[feelings]] of long-term [[commitment]], [[love]], [[loyalty]] and [[appreciation]].

   

   

Vicki:  I’d just like to say at this point, Monjoronson, I’ve noticed tremendous [[transformations]] in people that were close to me through this recent [[grieving]] [[process]].  I saw those who I had [[shared]] these Q & A sessions with coming on board with a new sense of acknowledgement and [[belief]], and I saw tremendous movement of [[unity]] toward one another.  I don’t know if you want to comment on that, but I felt that it was so ''beautiful''!  These [[insights]] were coming to me quickly and very early in the [[process]], and as I watched this [[growth]] occur around me, I felt it should be part of our session today.

Vicki:  I’d just like to say at this point, Monjoronson, I’ve noticed tremendous [[transformations]] in people that were close to me through this recent [[grieving]] [[process]].  I saw those who I had [[shared]] these Q & A sessions with coming on board with a new sense of acknowledgement and [[belief]], and I saw tremendous movement of [[unity]] toward one another.  I don’t know if you want to comment on that, but I felt that it was so ''beautiful''!  These [[insights]] were coming to me quickly and very early in the [[process]], and as I watched this [[growth]] occur around me, I felt it should be part of our session today.

===='''''[[Catastrophism]]'''''====

===='''''[[Catastrophism]]'''''====

*Plans to aid humans during cataclysms and deaths

*[[Plans]] to aid humans during [[Catastrophism|cataclysms]] and [[death]]s

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, you are [[correct]] in your assessment and your analysis of what occurred.  This is a small example of what we are [[planning]] for your global [[population]] as it [[experiences]] these [[cataclysms]], which decimate your global [[population]], that those who remain will acknowledge and [[understand]] that there is a [[benevolent]], pervasive, enduring, [[permanent]] [[commitment]] to them, to [[assist]] them in reclaiming their world, that the good news of this era is that there is [[oneness]], and in oneness there is [[strength]].  Acknowledging that there is something more to life than just the next big [[movie]] or the next big [[game]] on television, or the next car; that you will find that [[work]] that you are doing, and the work of other [[light workers]], whether they are of the [[Teaching Mission]], [[Magisterial Mission]], or the many hundreds of other [[spiritually]] infused movements around the world, there will be acknowledgement that there is [[reason]] and [[purpose]] among them, and that it is time to now bring about the [[conscious]] [[evolution]] of your world.  We are striving to [[assist]] you and your [[friends]], whether they are your [[neighbors]] or your [[family]], or your [[associates]], in coming to [[awareness]] that ‘we are legitimate’ and that we have [[perspectives]] for your world, which no [[mortal]] has [[capacity]] to [[appreciate]] or [[effectively]] [[express]] in their world.  Do you [[understand]]?

MONJORONSON:  Yes, you are [[correct]] in your assessment and your analysis of what occurred.  This is a small example of what we are [[planning]] for your global [[population]] as it [[experiences]] these [[cataclysms]], which decimate your global [[population]], that those who remain will acknowledge and [[understand]] that there is a [[benevolent]], pervasive, enduring, [[permanent]] [[commitment]] to them, to [[assist]] them in reclaiming their world, that the good news of this era is that there is [[oneness]], and in oneness there is [[strength]].  Acknowledging that there is something more to life than just the next big [[movie]] or the next big [[game]] on television, or the next car; that you will find that [[work]] that you are doing, and the work of other [[light workers]], whether they are of the [[Teaching Mission]], [[Magisterial Mission]], or the many hundreds of other [[spiritually]] infused movements around the world, there will be acknowledgement that there is [[reason]] and [[purpose]] among them, and that it is time to now bring about the [[conscious]] [[evolution]] of your world.  We are striving to [[assist]] you and your [[friends]], whether they are your [[neighbors]] or your [[family]], or your [[associates]], in coming to [[awareness]] that ‘we are legitimate’ and that we have [[perspectives]] for your world, which no [[mortal]] has [[capacity]] to [[appreciate]] or [[effectively]] [[express]] in their world.  Do you [[understand]]?

Vicki:  Exactly.  The more I’m involved in this [[process]], validating and legitimizing their [[spirit]] [[presence]] and [[influence]] for myself, the more I [[realize]] that [[things]] are well [[planned]].  I guess that’s all I can say.

Vicki:  Exactly.  The more I’m involved in this [[process]], validating and legitimizing their [[spirit]] [[presence]] and [[influence]] for myself, the more I [[realize]] that [[things]] are well [[planned]].  I guess that’s all I can say.

===='''''[[Humor]]'''''====

===='''''[[Humor]]'''''====

*Need for humor at tragic times

*Need for ''humor'' at [[tragic]] times

   

   

Vicki:  Monjoronson, though this may seem a bit out of the ordinary, there have been times when [[humor]] provided a [[wonderful]] relief for me in the last couple of weeks.  As you probably already know, I have been [[blessed]] with a [[family]] who can be somewhat irreverent at times, but who [[share]] much [[humor]] [[together]].  It had a tremendous [[healing]] [[effect]] upon me.  Would you like to speak to this?

Vicki:  Monjoronson, though this may seem a bit out of the ordinary, there have been times when [[humor]] provided a [[wonderful]] relief for me in the last couple of weeks.  As you probably already know, I have been [[blessed]] with a [[family]] who can be somewhat irreverent at times, but who [[share]] much [[humor]] [[together]].  It had a tremendous [[healing]] [[effect]] upon me.  Would you like to speak to this?

Vicki:  And of course my sister, who is with me here, and has been by my side through all of this, and I am so grateful for her, is pretty gifted in this.  So I’ve been fortunate enough to have that [[experience]]

Vicki:  And of course my sister, who is with me here, and has been by my side through all of this, and I am so grateful for her, is pretty gifted in this.  So I’ve been fortunate enough to have that [[experience]]

   

   

“Let there be spaces in your [[togetherness]].” ([http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kahlil_Gibran Khalil Gibran])

“Let there be spaces in your [[togetherness]].” ([https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kahlil_Gibran Khalil Gibran])

   

   

Vicki:  I have one more question or comment, and it is about “moving on.”  In his [[book]], the [[author]], [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kahlil_Gibran Khalil Gibran], suggested to couples in [[relationships]], “Let there be spaces in your togetherness.”  This has been a [[guiding]] piece of [[wisdom]] that my [[husband]] and I have [[grown]] into, as our [[relationship]] [[matured]].  And now, in facing this grieving period and loss, I’m [[thinking]] that this may serve me in my [[ability]] to move on.  Could you comment on this?

Vicki:  I have one more question or comment, and it is about “moving on.”  In his [[book]], the [[author]], [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kahlil_Gibran Khalil Gibran], suggested to couples in [[relationships]], “Let there be spaces in your togetherness.”  This has been a [[guiding]] piece of [[wisdom]] that my [[husband]] and I have [[grown]] into, as our [[relationship]] [[matured]].  And now, in facing this grieving period and loss, I’m [[thinking]] that this may serve me in my [[ability]] to move on.  Could you comment on this?

   

   

MONJORONSON:  Yes, you and your [[husband]] had a [[wonderfully]] [[healthy]] and [[developing]] [[relationship]] by having those spaces, those open times where you were not in constant [[contact]], where you gave each other permission to be apart, and knowing that in your being apart you were not at a loss without the other, that you were not rejected, but that you were given [[opportunity]] to [[experience]] yourself, as yourself, out of [[relationship]], but knowing that the relationship was safe, otherwise.  You do not need to worry about this, or concern yourself.  Know that [[Michael]] in many ways has now given you a final open [[space]] in which you can fully [[explore]] yourself to the utmost.  You have a permission to now know yourself in ways which you did not.  Not that you need to be [[monastic]] in any way, but that you have now an [[opportunity]] for [[reverential]] reverie, a time of [[reverie]] that you can [[experience]] repeatedly, in an ongoing way.  Know that his [[support]] is with you; know that you are given support by your [[unseen]] helpers in ways which are also [[intimate]] and distant.  Enjoy these and take advantage of the [[contact]] as you wish.

MONJORONSON:  Yes, you and your [[husband]] had a [[wonderfully]] [[healthy]] and [[developing]] [[relationship]] by having those spaces, those open times where you were not in constant [[contact]], where you gave each other permission to be apart, and knowing that in your being apart you were not at a loss without the other, that you were not rejected, but that you were given [[opportunity]] to [[experience]] yourself, as yourself, out of [[relationship]], but knowing that the relationship was safe, otherwise.  You do not need to worry about this, or concern yourself.  Know that [[Michael]] in many ways has now given you a final open [[space]] in which you can fully [[explore]] yourself to the utmost.  You have a permission to now know yourself in ways which you did not.  Not that you need to be [[monastic]] in any way, but that you have now an [[opportunity]] for [[reverential]] reverie, a time of [[reverie]] that you can [[experience]] repeatedly, in an ongoing way.  Know that his [[support]] is with you; know that you are given support by your [[unseen]] helpers in ways which are also [[intimate]] and distant.  Enjoy these and take advantage of the [[contact]] as you wish.