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Q: Elise requested a message.

Q: Elise requested a message.

Ham: Of course. My dear, you are doing well and are making good and steady progress forward. Sometimes, you tend to be in a hurry to do this or accomplish that. You like everything organized and when things are disorganized and not in the harmony you would like to see it causes you distress. But, you must remember that you can’t control everything that human beings have very little control over anything and part of becoming empowered in the spirit is the result of accepting one’s powerlessness on the earthly plane.

Ham: Of course. My dear, you are doing well and are making [[good]] and steady [[progress]] forward. Sometimes, you tend to be in a hurry to do this or accomplish that. You like everything [[organized]] and when things are disorganized and not in the [[harmony]] you would like to see it causes you distress. But, you must remember that you can’t [[control]] everything that human beings have very little control over anything and part of [[becoming]] empowered in the [[spirit]] is the result of [[accepting]] one’s powerlessness on the [[earth]]ly plane.

Q: May I have a personal message?

Q: May I have a personal message?

Ham: Certainly, my son. You are also someone who has an active fantasy life. You have an active, creative imagination which is wonderful. There is also a tendency to want to almost live in that world where everything is perfect, where you have complete control and this is true for many creative people. You are good at dealing with people, though, and you have come far in this regard in the last few years. Concentrate on being balanced. The more balanced you are, the happier and more productive you will be. Focus on balance and on how you can remain so even during times of stress and pressure. Rather than seeking for escape from pressure, which causes imbalance, think instead about absorbing pressure which creates greater balance. Increasingly become more and more at ease with yourself. Think about staying in the now time and really focus on this.

Ham: Certainly, my son. You are also someone who has an active [[fantasy]] life. You have an active, [[creative]] [[imagination]] which is wonderful. There is also a tendency to want to almost live in that world where everything is [[perfect]], where you have complete [[control]] and this is true for many creative people. You are good at dealing with people, though, and you have come far in this regard in the last few years. [[Concentrate]] on being [[balanced]]. The more balanced you are, the [[happier]] and more productive you will be. [[Focus]] on balance and on how you can remain so even during times of [[stress]] and [[pressure]]. Rather than seeking for [[escape]] from pressure, which causes imbalance, think instead about [[absorbing]] pressure which creates greater [[balance]]. Increasingly [[become]] more and more at ease with yourself. Think about staying in the [[now time]] and really [[focus]] on this.

Q: Do you have anything to say to me as feedback this week?

Q: Do you have anything to say to me as [[feedback]] this week?

Ham: Yes, of course. Sometimes when one is under extra pressure, one is also tempted to use those nearest and dearest to vent frustration or whatever confused feelings come up as a result of that pressure. And the same, of course, occurs with the other spouse. When her pressures are mounting, she tends to take it out on you in little ways over small things, just out of frustration and anxiety. But these periods of venting towards each other can cause harm to your relationship, even if that was never meant to happen. And so I must say that self-control must extend to all areas of life. Sometimes that which we value most is that which we take for granted. So you must both remember to be gentle with each other because you are both under some pressure right now and people under pressure tend to blow things out of proportion and get confused about priorities. Remember that you love each other and that your relationship has been the single most important one for both of you for many years. Something this precious and important must be handled with care.

Ham: Yes, of course. Sometimes when one is under extra [[pressure]], one is also [[tempted]] to use those nearest and dearest to vent [[frustration]] or whatever confused [[feelings]] come up as a result of that pressure. And the same, of course, occurs with the other [[spouse]]. When her pressures are mounting, she tends to take it out on you in little ways over small things, just out of [[frustration]] and [[anxiety]]. But these periods of venting towards each other can cause harm to your [[relationship]], even if that was never meant to happen. And so I must say that self-control must extend to all areas of life. Sometimes that which we [[value]] most is that which we take for granted. So you must both remember to be [[gentle]] with each other because you are both under some [[pressure]] right now and people under pressure tend to blow things out of [[proportion]] and get [[confused]] about [[priorities]]. Remember that you love each other and that your [[relationship]] has been the single most important one for both of you for many years. Something this precious and important must be handled with [[care]].

Q: Charlie B?

Q: Charlie B?

Ham: Certainly, son. Yes, you have also some rocky areas in your relationships and you tend to forget about how important those relationships are. But, it is important not to forget this. Relationships are really the most important part of your lives. Relationships are where you learn about yourself and about other people and these are the things that the Father holds dearest. Be careful of the feelings of those you love. When you do this, they are automatically more careful of your feelings.

Ham: Certainly, son. Yes, you have also some rocky areas in your [[relationships]] and you tend to forget about how important those relationships are. But, it is important not to [[forget]] this. Relationships are really the most important part of your lives. Relationships are where you learn about yourself and about other people and these are the things that [[the Father]] holds dearest. Be [[careful]] of the [[feelings]] of those you love. When you do this, they are [[automatically]] more careful of your [[feelings]].

 

===Closing===

===Closing===

Until next week, my children, my love and my prayers are with you each. Farewell.

Until next week, my children, my [[love]] and my [[prayers]] are with you each. Farewell.

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