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===Teacher: [[Thought Adjuster]]===
===Teacher: [[Thought Adjuster]]===
===TR: [[Unknown]]===
===TR: [[Unknown]]===
==Session==
==Session 1==
August 27, 2004
===Lesson===
===Lesson===
Let us begin with the topic of listening. It is a most difficult skill to master, as most listening is done superficially. Most people listen but is seems to ‘go in one ear and out of the other’, because of un-focused listening. Listening is a skill which can and needs to be cultivated and refined over and over by the one who does the listening. It has everything to do with focusing and the level of intent. Outward listening is shallow, the reason for this is also a sort of protection because of the cacophony of way too many words on this planet, which are carelessly and thoughtlessly spoken, so the hearer develops a ‘deaf ear.’ This can be a subconscious protection against too much noise.
Let us begin with the [[topic]] of [[listening]]. It is a most difficult [[skill]] to master, as most listening is done [[superficially]]. Most people listen but is seems to ‘go in one ear and out of the other’, because of un-[[focused]] listening. Listening is a skill which can and needs to be cultivated and refined over and over by the one who does the listening. It has [[everything]] to do with [[focusing]] and the level of [[intent]]. Outward listening is [[shallow]], the reason for this is also a sort of protection because of the [[cacophony]] of way too many [[words]] on this planet, which are carelessly and thoughtlessly spoken, so the hearer develops a ‘deaf ear.’ This can be a subconscious protection against too much [[noise]].
Actually, the listening I would bring to your attention, is the inner listening, which is even more difficult and discerns the motive and truth contend behind the spoken word, and learns to ‘read between the lines,’ so to speak, and ‘feels’ with the heart.’ The words which are not being spoken, and in this manner discerns what lives in the other person’s heart with whom one has the conversation, and I am not speaking about superficial chit chat here. All too often when someone speaks, the other is already busy formulating an answer in the mind because of wanting to respond before the speaker is finished, and often the speaker gets interrupted by the impatient one, who can’t wait to have a say. Sometimes this is a fine line as some speakers repeat themselves and don’t know how to end a conversation.
Actually, the listening I would bring to your [[attention]], is the [[Inner Life|inner listening]], which is even more difficult and [[discerns]] the [[motive]] and [[truth]] [[content]] behind the spoken [[word]], and learns to ‘[[read]] between the lines,’ so to speak, and ‘[[feels]]’ with the [[heart]].’ The [[words]] which are not being spoken, and in this [[manner]] discerns what lives in the other person’s heart with whom one has the [[conversation]], and I am not speaking about superficial chit chat here. All too often when someone speaks, the other is already busy formulating an answer in the [[mind]] because of wanting to [[respond]] before the speaker is finished, and often the speaker gets interrupted by the impatient one, who can’t wait to have a say. Sometimes this is a fine line as some speakers repeat themselves and don’t know how to end a [[conversation]].
Listening is a skill that needs to be refined over and over again, as more wisdom and discernment is being gathered. And of course the ultimate listening skill you develop is by paying full attention to My words, while it is oh so easy to come inbetween with your own thoughts, pre-opinions and belief-systems, especially when you sincerely doubt, whether it is I, who speaks, or of they are ruminations from your own mind. In times to come you will doubt no longer as you will unmistakenly know, who it is, that speaks from within you.
Listening is a skill that needs to be refined over and over again, as more [[wisdom]] and [[discernment]] is being gathered. And of course the [[ultimate]] listening skill you develop is by paying full [[attention]] to [[Thought Adjuster|My words]], while it is oh so easy to come in between with your own [[thoughts]], pre-opinions and [[belief]]-[[systems]], especially when you sincerely [[doubt]], whether it is I, who speaks, or of they are ruminations from your own mind. In times to come you will doubt no longer as you will unmistakenly know, who it is, that speaks from within you.
You can ask yourself these questions: “Have I been uplifted while being in the presence of my Beloved? Am I feeling loved and is my own love towards others increasing? Am I feeling more secure within myself and have a calmer demeanor?”
You can ask yourself these questions: “Have I been uplifted while being in the [[presence]] of my Beloved? Am I feeling loved and is my own [[love]] towards others increasing? Am I feeling more [[secure]] within myself and have a calmer demeanor?”
If you can answer in the affirmative, then you know that you are on the ‘right track’, and if others chide you and say that it is not possible to hear the Small Voice within, that is because they have not recognized Me within them yet, or they have not yet developed the required listening skills, so My words do not resonate within them, and they presume to pass judgment because of this lack of recognition in their own hearts.
If you can answer in the affirmative, then you know that you are on the ‘right track’, and if others chide you and say that it is not possible to hear the [[Thought Adjuster|Small Voice within]], that is because they have not recognized Me within them yet, or they have not yet developed the required listening skills, so My [[words]] do not [[resonate]] within them, and they presume to pass [[judgment]] because of this lack of recognition in their own [[hearts]].
Continue to learn and listen to My voice, stay focused and pay close attention as I Am leading you deeper into yourself.
Continue to learn and listen to My [[voice]], stay [[focused]] and pay close attention as I Am leading you deeper into yourself.
==Session 2==
August 28, 2004
===Lesson===
This is another little [[Discourse|treatise]] on listening. I will endeavor to lead you deeper into yourself, but in order to do so, you really need to sharpen your listening [[skills]]. Actually, listening involves both the [[Mind|head]] and the [[heart]]. The heart being the most important as [[feeling]] and [[discernment]] are lodged there. We have spoken before how the heart is the true mind in the [[body]] and the [[brain]] the [[material]] [[Computation|computer]], where the necessary connections are being made and un-made. There is a great true-ism in the [[words]]: ‘What you don’t use, you lose’, and so connections in the [[thinking]] [[process]] will wither and die off due to lack of use. So if one has a potentially [[brilliant]] [[mind]], this can increase the connections considerably through continued right thinking. It is also true that with laziness in thought these [[potential]] connections become weak, but this rolls ‘down the line’ so to speak, as the attention given to listening also lessens.
The [[fact]] is that the more you turn within, the more the [[quality]] of listening improves over [[time]]. It is the [[Inner Life|inner]] [[focus]] which matters, so the outward [[noises]] become less intruding, and even when a sudden noise erupts on the ‘outside,’ you will no longer be startled by this, because your habit of concentration has become so established that it has become ‘second nature’ to you. This is being accomplished over time. As you well know, you have tended to be [[Fraction|scattered]] in your [[thinking]]; your mercurial mind has a tendency to 'hop, skip and jump' from subject to subject.
[[Meditation]] is an excellent [[discipline]] to the still unruly and [[Turbulence|restless]] minds. God has bestowed many gifts unto [[mortals]], which as yet lie dormant in the mind, and which can only be turned into perfect actuals in [[eternity]] if the [[mortal]] [[chooses]] [[immortality]]. The question arises: How does one go about that? Actually, it is very [[simple]] and yet at the same time the most [[complex]]. In a nutshell, one starts out with a [[belief]] in [[God]], the Maker and Upholder of everything. The mortal [[rationalizes]] belief to make sense out of life.
[[Faith]] grows when belief is put into [[practice]], and it comes alive in the activities of the believer through the exercise of [[trust]] and [[hope]] of a better future by putting into practice the [[love]] of the Giver of Love towards all others. Head and heart will have become involved together and start to move into a greater [[harmonizing]] [[balance]], and in time all the ‘pieces fit together like a fine clockwork.’ There will be [[harmony]] in the [[physical]] [[body]] as the great central [[nervous system]] is under the calming [[influence]] of the heart/brain, which filter down to all the nerve endings, in the fluids, tissues, bones and all the organs of the [[physical]] [[system]]. The mental, emotional and physical are ruled by the [[spiritual]]. As a man or woman thinketh, that he or she becomes.
Therefore, sharpen your listening skills by taking time to turn within and learn to listen with [[focused]] [[attention]]. The benefits accrued over time are enormous.
==Session 3==
August 28, 2004
===Lesson===
Begin to write and the lesson will become clear to you. You see, it is all in the [[listening]] to the [[Thought Adjuster|Inner Voice]] to receive the [[guidance]] you need which will help you carry on. Help is never far away and always available. It is in the [[Culture|cultivation]] of [[focused]] and concentrated listening that you open the door to a higher level of [[thinking]]. This is not always easy, especially when so much [[Noise|clutter]] occupies the [[mind]] of [[things]] needing to be done or taken care of -- a shopping-list, a phone-call, a visit, or outward [[noise]]s which make it difficult to hear. And yet, there is this lovely pathway in the mind with a deep connection to the [[God|All That Is]], which can provide you with the [[peace]] you [[desire]], a [[flowing]] of a [[divine]] [[essence]] can surround you and you will know that all is well.
This, dear one, is the reward for coming [[faithfully]] to Me in the [[Silence]] of your [[heart]]. It is the [[persistent]] [[dedication]] of those who seek that allows them to surely find. [[Everything]] you need is already within you, all the answers to your [[prayers]], and all the nurturing for your [[soul]], which is the [[Peace]] beyond [[understanding]], the balm for a [[Grief|grieving]] [[heart]], which is [[Healing|healed]] because it realizes that it is [[understood]], and [[peace]] for the [[mind]]. It is a meeting up with your [[Creator]] [[God]], at that point of infinite [[stillness]], where [[everything]] else recedes into the background. It is hard to define, but the [[beauty]] lies in the [[experience]]. This journey into the depths of [[being]] is open to everyone. Every hunger shall be stilled when one looks in the right direction.
Life itself becomes more fulfilling, because the [[reason]] and [[purpose]] become clearer, which is seeing yourself as a [[worthy]] child of God. There never was any separation, only the minds of mortals conceived this [[idea]]. Time has now come for [[humanity]] to [[wake]] up to the [[fact]] that they spring from the same Root, and that all belong to the same Creator God; that they are each other at [[soul]]-level and yet separate. Each has its own [[color]] and [[purpose]] of being part of everything, which is being part of [[creation]]. Some will say, ‘This is too [[simple]]’. Yes, it is, and at the same time it is the most magnificent journey anyone can wake up to; to consciously, in a greater awareness, start to [[work]] on their own inner self-development and self-correction to become [[perfect]], even as the [[Creator]] is Perfect.
In becoming [[perfect]], you may use the gift of [[free will]] to choose how fast or how slow you shall advance. A [[word]] of counsel here is that the more you are willing to share some time with Me, and learn to heed [[Thought Adjuster|My Inner Voice]], the more [[joyful]] your journey will become.
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