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| Q: I was interested in what you were saying to Rebecca. I was [[wondering]] how much of that would apply to me to, you know the [[fear]] of [[ridicule]]. That sounded like there might be a [[parallel]]. | | Q: I was interested in what you were saying to Rebecca. I was [[wondering]] how much of that would apply to me to, you know the [[fear]] of [[ridicule]]. That sounded like there might be a [[parallel]]. |
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− | Ham: Yes, there is to some extent. Certainly it is a common [[pattern]] for [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Anon/Alateen children in alcoholic families] to try to shield the [[parents]] from the hostile outside world because the [[home]] is known and the outsiders are [[strangers]]. | + | Ham: Yes, there is to some extent. Certainly it is a common [[pattern]] for [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Anon/Alateen children in alcoholic families] to try to shield the [[parents]] from the hostile outside world because the [[home]] is known and the outsiders are [[strangers]]. |
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| Q: To try to shield the [[parents]], in other words the [[denial]] thing? | | Q: To try to shield the [[parents]], in other words the [[denial]] thing? |
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| Ham: Yes. | | Ham: Yes. |
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− | Q: Is that the greatest thing she and I have in common, our upbringing in [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Anon/Alateen alcoholic families]? | + | Q: Is that the greatest thing she and I have in common, our upbringing in [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Anon/Alateen alcoholic families]? |
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| Ham: It is a similarity. | | Ham: It is a similarity. |
| ===='''''[[Ritual]]''''', '''''[[Prejudice]]'''''==== | | ===='''''[[Ritual]]''''', '''''[[Prejudice]]'''''==== |
− | Q: Ham, it is interesting that you talked about cleansing. Friday night I attended a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweat_lodge Native American Sweat Lodge] [[ceremony]]. Are activities like this useful in helping us let go, in cleansing ourselves? | + | Q: Ham, it is interesting that you talked about cleansing. Friday night I attended a [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweat_lodge Native American Sweat Lodge] [[ceremony]]. Are activities like this useful in helping us let go, in cleansing ourselves? |
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| Ham: Yes | | Ham: Yes |