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Daniel: "Thank you N1."

Daniel: "Thank you N1."

 

N1: "Thank you. I enjoyed your lesson and it also brought up a question for me that I [[struggle]] with and that is that in [[service]] the giving is wholehearted with no strings attached. How do we deal with the times when we would like to be there, to be in service, and we would like to be giving [[purely]] from [[love]], but we have our strings? Should we not try and [[force]] it and go ahead and go through whatever [[feelings]] we are feeling and [[experience]] our [[rebelliousness]] and then get back to giving when it's really there for real? Or should we attempt to [[change]] our feelings when we are [[feeling]] all the other strings? What [[advice]] do you have to handle, what I have learned as the term [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency co-dependency]? It is certainly not [[pure]] loving/giving."

N1: "Thank you. I enjoyed your lesson and it also brought up a question for me that I [[struggle]] with and that is that in [[service]] the giving is wholehearted with no strings attached. How do we deal with the times when we would like to be there, to be in service, and we would like to be giving [[purely]] from [[love]], but we have our strings? Should we not try and [[force]] it and go ahead and go through whatever [[feelings]] we are feeling and [[experience]] our [[rebelliousness]] and then get back to giving when it's really there for real? Or should we attempt to [[change]] our feelings when we are [[feeling]] all the other strings? What [[advice]] do you have to handle, what I have learned as the term [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency co-dependency]? It is certainly not [[pure]] loving/giving."

But know that because you are [[human]], there will never be this state of [[perfect]] perfection; that you during your life will have those times when, indeed, the outer and inner will come [[together]]. And then there will be those times when they will run [[parallel]] and not mesh. And there will be those times when it is like the [[divine]] aspect of your lives has fallen to the wayside.

But know that because you are [[human]], there will never be this state of [[perfect]] perfection; that you during your life will have those times when, indeed, the outer and inner will come [[together]]. And then there will be those times when they will run [[parallel]] and not mesh. And there will be those times when it is like the [[divine]] aspect of your lives has fallen to the wayside.

 

And so you see, my second [[message]] tonight dealt exactly with this, that when there is not meshing, when there is that falling away, that is the most important time for you to come to [[the Father]] in the [[silence]]. It is through that silence with the Father that you will be able to go beyond, will be able to snip the strings and know unconditional [[love]], unconditional [[service]]. But it will not happen at all times. At those times when in your life you feel you are not hitting the mark, at that time be [[gentle]] with yourself, love yourself then. [[Love]] your humanness. love those [[failures]]! For it is in loving these failures that you help them to reverse. You see, if you look at the broad [[picture]], those things in your life, those things where you do not hit the mark can be like two [[enemies]]. And if you are always trying to tell the enemy that he is wrong, then it only makes the [[problem]] bigger. But if you can [[love]] your enemy and [[understand]] your enemy, what happens? His [[defenses]] are gone, for you cannot fight [[love]]. So do not fight yourselves in those [[moments]]. Rather, use the greatest [[weapon]] of all, love. Love empowers. Love brings about [[change]]. Is this helping?"

And so you see, my second [[message]] tonight dealt exactly with this, that when there is not meshing, when there is that falling away, that is the most important time for you to come to [[the Father]] in the [[silence]]. It is through that silence with the Father that you will be able to go beyond, will be able to snip the strings and know unconditional [[love]], unconditional [[service]]. But it will not happen at all times. At those times when in your life you feel you are not hitting the mark, at that time be [[gentle]] with yourself, love yourself then. [[Love]] your humanness. love those [[failures]]! For it is in loving these failures that you help them to reverse. You see, if you look at the broad [[picture]], those things in your life, those things where you do not hit the mark can be like two [[enemies]]. And if you are always trying to tell the enemy that he is wrong, then it only makes the [[problem]] bigger. But if you can [[love]] your enemy and [[understand]] your enemy, what happens? His [[defenses]] are gone, for you cannot fight [[love]]. So do not fight yourselves in those [[moments]]. Rather, use the greatest [[weapon]] of all, love. Love empowers. Love brings about [[change]]. Is this helping?"