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===Topic: ''Facing Disappointment''===
===Group: [[11:11 Progress Group]]===
==Facilitators==
===Teacher: [[Sharmon|Midwayer Sharmon]]===
===TR: [[Valdir Soares]]===
==Session==
===Lesson===
Sharmon: “My Dear friend, this is Sharmon, the most charming person in the Midway Realm; your friend of some years and happy for being here again to [[inspire]] your [[contemplation]]s. I know that a constant trend in [[your mind]] in these days — due personal and public issues — is how to deal with life’s [[disappointments]]. Believe me; among the things that life brings in [[abundance]], disappointments make the top of the list. Therefore, all will creatures in the universe of [[time and space]], and mostly we evolutionary creatures, must learn to face them or else go through life holding numerous unhealthy [[grudges]].
“First, Let it Sink In. When disappointments happen, trying to deny them only makes the situation worse. Instead, [[accept]] them; I even would say, [[embrace]] them, not in a sick and [[masochist]] way, but in a way to allow you to [[achieve]] full conscience of its impact on you. Trying to ignore it is in fact to [[deceive]] yourself. To downplay its effect on you, also, is damaging to yourself. Let it sink into you. Get a full appraisal of its consequences on your life. You need to know what damages this disappointment caused, so you can begin to repair it.
“Second, Re-Assert Your [[Goals]]. When you suffer a disappointment, you might temporarily lose [[sight]] of your life’s goals. Usually, that is when [[depression]] may occur and you may go spiraling down into the drain of commiseration. After you assessed the damages of the disappointment you suffered, re-assert your goals in life: [[spiritual]], [[emotional]] and [[material]] ones. If your goals are based on meaningful [[values]], you don’t need to change, but if not, do not be afraid of re-[[adjusting]] them in the right direction. In doing this, do not fail to obtain the always available assistance of your [[Thought Adjuster]] within.
“Lastly, Start Anew. Depending on the [[dimensions]] of a particular disappointment you have to deal with, you may have to restructure all of your life, or at least parts of your life to begin again. Don’t be [[afraid]] to start anew. See it not as a [[delay]] in your life, but a fresh new [[opportunity]] to re-invent yourself, to make it better. If you are striving for betterment in your life, do it without [[fear]], for you have much, much help in the spirit realm available to you. However, it is your [[courage]], faith, iron-clad [[determination]] that will make the [[difference]].
===Closing===
“Therefore, my dear, facing [[disappointments]] is difficult for everybody because a disappointment takes from you something highly valued. However, on the [[positive]] side it is a great [[opportunity]] to re-evaluate your life and make [[changes]] that, without suffering the disappointment, you might never have the opportunity to make. Do not let a disappointment throw you in the [[depression]] pit. Receive it, re-evaluate it and restart it. If you are too [[comfortable]], you may stop [[growing]]; that is why sometimes [[the Father]] allows some shaking up in your life, so you can lift yourself higher and higher. I am Sharmon, your friend. Blessings!”
[[Category: The Teaching Mission: Dialogues]]
[[Category: 11:11 Progress Group]]
[[Category: Sharmon]]
[[Category: Valdir Soares]]
[[Category: 2017]]
[[File:Teaching_buddha_small.jpg|right|frame]]
==Heading==
===Topic: ''Facing Disappointment''===
===Group: [[11:11 Progress Group]]===
==Facilitators==
===Teacher: [[Sharmon|Midwayer Sharmon]]===
===TR: [[Valdir Soares]]===
==Session==
===Lesson===
Sharmon: “My Dear friend, this is Sharmon, the most charming person in the Midway Realm; your friend of some years and happy for being here again to [[inspire]] your [[contemplation]]s. I know that a constant trend in [[your mind]] in these days — due personal and public issues — is how to deal with life’s [[disappointments]]. Believe me; among the things that life brings in [[abundance]], disappointments make the top of the list. Therefore, all will creatures in the universe of [[time and space]], and mostly we evolutionary creatures, must learn to face them or else go through life holding numerous unhealthy [[grudges]].
“First, Let it Sink In. When disappointments happen, trying to deny them only makes the situation worse. Instead, [[accept]] them; I even would say, [[embrace]] them, not in a sick and [[masochist]] way, but in a way to allow you to [[achieve]] full conscience of its impact on you. Trying to ignore it is in fact to [[deceive]] yourself. To downplay its effect on you, also, is damaging to yourself. Let it sink into you. Get a full appraisal of its consequences on your life. You need to know what damages this disappointment caused, so you can begin to repair it.
“Second, Re-Assert Your [[Goals]]. When you suffer a disappointment, you might temporarily lose [[sight]] of your life’s goals. Usually, that is when [[depression]] may occur and you may go spiraling down into the drain of commiseration. After you assessed the damages of the disappointment you suffered, re-assert your goals in life: [[spiritual]], [[emotional]] and [[material]] ones. If your goals are based on meaningful [[values]], you don’t need to change, but if not, do not be afraid of re-[[adjusting]] them in the right direction. In doing this, do not fail to obtain the always available assistance of your [[Thought Adjuster]] within.
“Lastly, Start Anew. Depending on the [[dimensions]] of a particular disappointment you have to deal with, you may have to restructure all of your life, or at least parts of your life to begin again. Don’t be [[afraid]] to start anew. See it not as a [[delay]] in your life, but a fresh new [[opportunity]] to re-invent yourself, to make it better. If you are striving for betterment in your life, do it without [[fear]], for you have much, much help in the spirit realm available to you. However, it is your [[courage]], faith, iron-clad [[determination]] that will make the [[difference]].
===Closing===
“Therefore, my dear, facing [[disappointments]] is difficult for everybody because a disappointment takes from you something highly valued. However, on the [[positive]] side it is a great [[opportunity]] to re-evaluate your life and make [[changes]] that, without suffering the disappointment, you might never have the opportunity to make. Do not let a disappointment throw you in the [[depression]] pit. Receive it, re-evaluate it and restart it. If you are too [[comfortable]], you may stop [[growing]]; that is why sometimes [[the Father]] allows some shaking up in your life, so you can lift yourself higher and higher. I am Sharmon, your friend. Blessings!”
[[Category: The Teaching Mission: Dialogues]]
[[Category: 11:11 Progress Group]]
[[Category: Sharmon]]
[[Category: Valdir Soares]]
[[Category: 2017]]